【勵志語錄】人生如潮起潮落，失望只是暫時的低谷，相信自己，總有一天會翻身。
有時候，會感到對人生很失望，因為努力了卻沒有得到想要的回報，或是缺乏親情、成績不好、沒有好工作、結婚對象等。
然而，抱怨和負能量只會讓人更失望。
改變自己的想法，換條路去取得想要的東西，也許這是更好的方法。
人生並不會像童話故事一樣美好。
但是只要身體和心理都健康，就有力氣繼續向前走。
如果感到疲憊，就要停下來，找個地方好好休息一下。
人生如潮起潮落，失望只是暫時的低谷，相信自己，總有一天會翻身。
Life is like the ebb and flow of the tide, and disappointment is just a temporary low point.
Believe in yourself, and one day you will turn the tide.
有時候你會對人生感到很失望，發現你很努力，但都沒有得到該有的回報，也沒有過上想要的生活。
對人生失望，可能是沒有獲得親情，也有可能是成績不夠好，沒有一個富爸爸，身邊都是一些壞人，覺得自己孤單一人，想結婚卻沒有一個好對象，想買房卻沒錢，想擁有一個好工作，卻只能做窮忙的工作。
人生從來不美好，即使有很多的娛樂項目，為我們架構了一個美好的世界，但回歸現實世界，我們仍然對生活、對我們的人生感到失望與不滿。
這些不滿慢慢累積成抱怨的力量，慢慢成為侵蝕你的負能量，它讓你覺得人生真的很無趣，為什麼人生總是讓我失望，我這麼努力，為什麼還是得不到我想要的東西？
想要改變這個想法，不是告訴自己世界上還是有童話故事的。
而是要告訴自己，或許是我想要的東西，不能以我現在的方式去取得，我應該換一條路去取得。
因為有些東西看起來很好，但卻不一定是適合你。
有些東西看起來，你覺得不適合，但實際使用之後，卻發現這就是我要的。
人生永遠不可能成為童話故事。
如果有，那肯定是有一群人幫你擋下了無數的風雨，才能讓你活在童話故事中。
但大部分的我們是沒有這種能耐，也沒有這麼多保護我們的人。
我們都是一個人獨自在寒風中行走，直到尋到合適的同伴，如果遲遲都沒有遇到合適的同伴，就只能自己給自己打氣說，我還行、我要再繼續加油，明天或許就能得到我想要的。
對人生很失望的這件事，永遠不需要感到抱歉，因為失望就是失望，難過就是難過，也許當下不一定想哭出來。
因為太久的失望難過，已經讓你沒有什麼感覺，你甚至覺得或許自己的人生，會這樣無望下去吧，現在自己的掙扎最終也是不能改變什麼，反正到頭來，還是不會得到自己想要的。
我想說，在這個世界上，也許有很多人、很多事物讓你失望，也有太多的阻力，讓你對未來感到恐懼、迷茫、害怕。
但是你絕對不可以對自己失望。
你的身體健康、心理健康，永遠都是最重要的。
只有你的身心靈都健康的時候，你才有力氣繼續往前走。
如果當下你覺得自己身心感到疲憊，不妨停下來，不要急著多走幾步，而是找個地方休息一下，看看身邊的風景，思考下一步要何去何從。
人生的路很長，沒有人知道未來會發生什麼，就好像你可能今天正在上班，突然被主管叫去說要資遣你，因為經濟不景氣、公司營收不好要裁員。
在這個時候你能夠怎麼辦呢？
四處找人吐口水，還是眼淚汪汪向主管說：拜託您，我願意降薪，請讓我留下來，或者提出我願意免費加班，其他的條件。
作為成年人遇到資遣這種事，你只能默默離開，把眼淚往肚子吞。
你知道日子還是要過下去，因為你還活著。
這份工作丟了，雖然是對自己的一個否定，但你也知道明白，這種難過的事情肯定不會只遇到一次。
你還是得去找下一份工作，因為有錢才有辦法買食物、付生活的帳單，好好讓自己活下去。
不論何時，活著就意味著你會遇到很多讓你感到失望的事，但不管生活再艱辛，都永遠不要對你自己失望。
對自己失望，你就會放棄努力、放棄追逐想要的生活，放棄很多你渴望的事物，就此在一個你討厭的世界中苦苦掙扎。
Sometimes, you may feel disappointed with life, finding that you have worked hard but have not received the expected return, nor have you been able to live the life you want.
Being disappointed with life may stem from not having family love, poor academic performance, not having a rich father, being surrounded by bad people, feeling lonely and alone, wanting to get married but not having a good partner, wanting to buy a house but not having the money, or wanting a good job but only being able to do low-paying jobs.
Life is never perfect, even with many entertainment options that construct a beautiful world for us. However, returning to the real world, we still feel disappointed and dissatisfied with life and our own existence.
These dissatisfactions gradually accumulate into a complaining force, slowly becoming negative energy that erodes you. It makes you feel that life is really boring, why does life always disappoint me, why am I not getting what I want even though I work so hard?
To change this way of thinking, don’t tell yourself that there are still fairy tales in the world. Instead, tell yourself that perhaps what I want cannot be obtained in the way I am currently pursuing, and I should take a different approach.
Because some things may look good but may not be suitable for you, while some things may not look suitable, but you may find out that they are what you want after using them.
Life can never be a fairy tale story. If it is, it is certainly because there are a group of people who have helped you withstand countless storms so that you can live in a fairy tale story.
But most of us do not have this ability or so many people to protect us. We all walk alone in the cold wind until we find suitable companions. If we have not met the right companion for a long time, we can only cheer ourselves up and say that I can still do it, and I will continue to work hard. Perhaps I can get what I want tomorrow.
Feeling very disappointed with life is something that you never need to apologize for, because disappointment is disappointment, and sadness is sadness. Perhaps at that moment, you do not necessarily want to cry.
Because too much disappointment and sadness have made you feel numb, and you even think that maybe your life will continue to be hopeless. Your struggle may not ultimately change anything, and you will not get what you want in the end.
I want to say that in this world, there may be many people and things that disappoint you, and there are too many obstacles that make you feel fearful, confused, and scared about the future.
But you must never be disappointed in yourself.
Your physical and mental health will always be the most important.
Only when your body and mind are healthy can you have the strength to move forward.
If you feel tired both physically and mentally, you may stop and rest instead of rushing to take more steps. Look at the scenery around you and think about where to go next.
Life is a long journey and no one knows what the future holds. It’s like you could be at work today and suddenly your boss calls you to tell you that you’re being laid off due to the economic downturn and poor company revenue.
What can you do in such a situation?
You could either badmouth everyone or tearfully plead with your boss to let you stay by offering to take a pay cut, work overtime for free, or any other conditions.
As an adult facing a layoff, you can only leave silently and swallow your tears.
You know that life goes on because you’re still alive.
Losing this job may be a personal rejection, but you also understand that such a difficult situation won’t happen only once.
You still have to find your next job because you need money to buy food and pay your bills to live properly.
Regardless of when, being alive means you’ll encounter many disappointing things, but no matter how hard life gets, never be disappointed in yourself.
Being disappointed in yourself will lead you to give up on your efforts, dreams, and desires, and struggle in a world you hate.
